So now we know…
We know what drove Cardinal Keith O’Brien to be so dogmatic
and so offensive to people in same-sex relationships.
Last year the Cardinal was voted ‘Bigot of the Year’ by
Stonewall after his outspoken campaign against same-sex marriage. At various times he described same-sex marriage as a "grotesque subversion”, an "aberration" and he likened it to slavery.
In May 2005 he told members of the Scottish Parliament that
homosexuals were "captives of sexual aberrations" and writing in the
Scottish Catholic Observer, he said
“The empirical evidence is clear,
same-sex relationships are demonstrably harmful to the medical, emotional and
spiritual wellbeing of those involved, no compassionate society should ever
enact legislation to facilitate or promote such relationships…” http://www.sconews.co.uk/latest-edition/14858/scotland-fails-homosexual-people/
So when allegations emerged from Catholic Priests of
‘inappropriate behaviour’ it must have been utterly devastating. The Cardinal resigned almost immediately, and
now he has all but admitted that the allegations are true.
Such is tragedy of Cardinal Keith O’Brien.
The Roman Catholic Church appears to be responding to this by
saying that the church has always had both saints and sinners in its ranks, but
this is a gross over-simplification. Speaking
so strongly against same-sex relationships while all the time knowing the
history of his own desires and sexual actions, reveals a man filled with
self-loathing who learned to live with himself by transferring that anger and
self-hatred onto others.
It is the classic vicious circle that almost always ends up
in the kind of abusive words and actions which we have witnessed.
At its root is a concept of ‘sin’ which is defined not by what
damages people and society, but by the application of an arbitrary set of rules
claiming some divine authority. For some,
the authority for such arbitrary spiritual laws is the Church, for others it is
the Bible, but the effect is the same - condemning people to live in this
twilight world of secret shame and misdirected anger.
The approach is not just limited to Roman Catholics of
course. Evangelical Alliance recently updated its guidance on responding
to homosexuality. At its heart are ‘Ten Affirmations’ which should guide and direct
evangelicals in their pastoral and theological attitudes to gay and lesbian
people. The first one begins with the
words, “We recognise that all
of us are sinners, and that the only true hope for sinful people – whatever our
sexuality – is in Jesus Christ.”
While the
intention behind this opening is benign, encouraging all evangelicals to
recognise their own sinfulness rather than just focusing on the ‘sinfulness’ of
homosexuals, it reveals something much deeper in the mindset of the writers –
that when we are talking about homosexuality, we can only be talking about sin.
For them, this
is the non-negotiable bottom line, and everything which follows is based on
that assumption. Their authority is a
reading of the Bible which is just as selectively legalistic, arbitrary, and
inconsistent as the Roman Catholic theology that led Cardinal O’Brien to the
torture of his alleged double life.
The harm which
Cardinal O’Brien spoke out against when he said,
“The
empirical evidence is clear, same-sex relationships are demonstrably harmful to
the medical, emotional and spiritual wellbeing of those involved, no
compassionate society should ever enact legislation to facilitate or promote
such relationships…”
… is as misdirected as his own self-loathing.
What he should have said is,
“The
empirical evidence is clear, religious or cultural repression of
same-sex relationships is demonstrably harmful to the medical, emotional and
spiritual wellbeing of those involved, no compassionate society should ever
enact legislation to facilitate or promote such repression…”
The cardinal
sin in this affair is not that of ‘homosexuality’. It is the sin of a religious institution
which created the toxic mixture of moral repression, secrecy, abuse of power, tortuous
inner conflict and misdirected self-loathing – and then used it to oppose the
aspirations of those in genuine, loving same-sex relationships.
This is this
sin which both the Church and Keith O’Brien need to reflect on and repent of –
not the ‘sin’ of homosexuality.
Thank you, Benny for adding the extra clause to the Cardinal's statement, which helps a lot. Tous comprendre...?
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure I do Alan - could you expand?
DeleteI think Bp Alan means the phrase 'religious or cultural repression' which you added.
DeleteAh - thank you! Sorry to be so dim!
DeleteThank you for this Benny.
ReplyDeleteYou are an honourable priest, taking the love of Jesus Christ into this world. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteYou are very kind - although looking at some of the things I have had to write, I think it must be 'tough love' where the church is concerned.
DeleteI so agree with your summing up, but have been avoiding commenting on my own blog. Maybe your post will encourage me - if and when the time is right. Every Blessing Freda from Dalamory www.freda.org.uk
ReplyDeleteThank you, Benny, for your fortitude in bringing into the light of day some of the institutional hypocrisy that we in the Church have helped to foster. May God forgive us. Christ is risen, Alleluia!
ReplyDeleteHe is risen indeed! Alleluia!
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